Really…it hurts to see the people with good educational background don’t have control on their tongue…they don’t even care what they are saying in bad temper…are we getting educated to just amass certificates &medals to showcase in our cupboards & a bank balance to enjoy the comforts of life…when they lose their temper, they don’t care what they are saying & listening to them at that moment, you can’t differentiate between an educated & a rustic…
It is said that the words that are said can’t be taken back…so why not think before speaking else if you can’t think then at least be silent instead of hurting the one who is just requesting & who can’t dare to think bad of or for you and wishes best for you…
It is just disgusting to hear such words or threatening which can’t be imagined from a friend or a well wisher …is it the refund of one’s affection & faith….Think about it…you might not be able to think positive now but it’s better to take few moments out from one’s busy schedule & ponder….
Feelings differ from person to person in any relationship….feelings can’t be measured on weighing scale…even way of responding differs…but at least we can respect one’s feelings & be soft instead of being hyper…even if one hurts till the person is in the good books of the beholder….one stands all the conflicts and just offer to be cool & good in responding.
# Why not we check our habits and bring in a change in ourselves & bring peace & happiness in lives of all…nice soothing words with a smiling lips doesn’t cost much but certainly brings in radical changes in the lives of all you touch…THINK THINK THINK !!!
Really…it hurts to see the people with good educational background don’t have control on their tongue…they don’t even care what they are saying in bad temper…are we getting educated to just amass certificates & medals to showcase in our cupboards & a bank balance to enjoy the comforts of life…when they lose their temper, they don’t care what they are saying & listening to them at that moment, you can’t differentiate between an educated & a rustic…
It is said that the words that are said can’t be taken back…so why not think before speaking else if you can’t think then at least be silent instead of hurting the one who is just requesting & who can’t dare to think bad of or for you and wishes best for you…
It is just disgusting to hear such words or threatening which can’t be imagined from a friend or a well wisher …is it the refund of one’s affection & faith….Think about it…you might not be able to think positive now but it’s better to take few moments out from one’s busy schedule & ponder….
Feelings differ from person to person in any relationship….feelings can’t be measured on weighing scale…even way of responding differs…but at least we can respect one’s feelings & be soft instead of being hyper…even if one hurts till the person is in the good books of the beholder….one stands all the conflicts and just offer to be cool & good in responding.
# Why not we check our habits and bring in a change in ourselves & bring peace & happiness in lives of all…nice soothing words with a smiling lips doesn’t cost much but certainly brings in radical changes in the lives of all you touch…THINK THINK THINK !!!
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2 replies on “MIND YOUR TONGUE — IT PINCHES”
I agree, our words should show grace to those around us. I recently was in a situation where a loved one lashed out at another and it seriously hurt me to my core! We should all think about what we say before using such hurtful language
Agree